Perception changes reality

The way you look at anything matters. Be it good or bad, if you suck at correctly perceiving things you will become depressed.

If something bad is happening, perceive it in a good way.

"Oh no, I was awkward in that social gathering", of course. That doesn't mean you have to stay like that. It should motivate you to become more social. Go read How To Win Friends And Influence People again and use it. Action!

"Uhmm, my last 3 projects failed, should I quit?". STFU. Build more and launch fast.

Bad things can serve as a motivator, if you are good at perceiving things in a good way.

This is not "think positive". Mould the reality to what you want.

Go live lyf bro!

Cheers!